Lessons I've Taught Myself

Everyday we learn new things whether we realize it or not.  Throughout the beginning of summer I've learned certain things that I've had to teach myself.  These are the sorts of things no one can really teach you and you just have to accept them yourself.
For one, I've learned that you can not rely on anyone or anything at all.  When it comes to life, you're on your own and being independent is very important.  You won't get far at all if you never stand alone sometimes.  Of course, it's essential to have people who love you around, but know when it's time to walk out on your own.  You should never need a particular person in your life in order to be happy.  Happiness lies within yourself.  
A second thing I've learned is that you have to believe in a set of values.  There has to be something you live your life by, and other things that you disagree with.  It's also important to accept that not everyone will agree with you, but that doesn't mean you have to dislike them.  If you stand for nothing, you'll fall for anything.
Another thing I've learned that's changed the way I feel in general is that you can be whoever and whatever you want.  If you don't like something about your body, change it.  If you aren't optimizing your happiness then change what you are doing in life.  Set goals for yourself and aim for the stars because just think about all the incredible things you are capable of.  We are all these incredible human beings and capable of so much.  Why not take advantage of the great opportunities we're given?
Finally, I've learned to just accept where I am.  I can't change my age, so wishing to be older and longing to be a little kid again at the same time serves no purpose.  All the people who are in my life right now are here for a reason.  All the people who've left my life just aren't meant to be in it anymore.  Sometimes it's difficult to understand, but I somehow just took a deep breath and moved on.  Clinging onto the past and all it's unhappy memories have done nothing for me.  Yet, I have learned important lessons from all the people in the past, but that's a different story.  Right now, my life is exactly where it's supposed to be, and so is yours.  
I know this post was sort of long and a little heavy, so I'm going to do a second post today. Those few things I taught myself and it's changed my life.  I hope you actually think about them a little bit and really take it to heart.  Stay happy because you're wonderful.  Until next time xxx.